I am very ashamed to say this, but as I am currently typing this sentence, a cigarette is lit in my hand, and I am thinking to myself of all the things I am going to say about why smoking is bad for your health. Hypocrite much? In all fairness, I am writing this post to my fellow smokers, who, like me, are trying to stop, but do not know how. I AM trying to stop. Actually, let’s keep this a motivational article, for I know everyone knows that smoking isn’t exactly going to help one live a long a… Continue

The custody questions that have popped up surrounding Michael Jackson and his two children, Debbie Rowe, and Jackson's mother Katherine Jackson have really brought up some issues surrounding individuals who purposely choose to adopt or have a child via a surrogate or artificial insemination - without a partner.

Is it a good idea?

Will a legal document stating who you want your child(ren) going to in the case of your death stand up in court if the biological parent stands up. And there i… Continue

So...I have a long story...and I have no idea what to do at this moment...

To start off, I have known this guy for going on three years now. I have always tried to keep close contact with him because he is one of my closest guy friends and I have pretty much loved him since I first saw him. About a year and a half ago we finally tried dating. For the week that we actually dated it was wonderful. He was romantic, sweet, and amazing. However, he was set up in a drug scandel and I don't know what… Continue

I give relationship advice on a very popular site on the web and have recently began to receive letters from women looking for advice on how to strengthen their extramarital relationships. Uh - is it me? But I believe in karma, and I am very sure that most of those relationships are doomed because of the other people that are being hurt and disrespected in the process. I mean asking me for advice on how to keep the love alive when you've got this whole other relationship in the wings at home? Le… Continue