Should i dump my boyfriend?HELP PLEASE

[gigi]

my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years. he is a very sweet guy. after a year and 4 months we broke up for about 2 months. in those 2 months we fought a lot and he was always after this one girl i never liked while we were together. it took as a while to get back because he missed me and liked me but didnt like what i did while i was single. When we got back we would double date a lot with the girl i didnt like and his best friend. i later on found out by aim history that a month before he broke up with me he was flirting with many girls, especially the girl i didnt like. he told her he would much rather be with her and if dreams would come true he would be. i told him about it and he was shocked, i broke up with him.he tried saying sorry and would do everything for me to forgive him, he even cried. now we've been doing good but it still bothers me plus we both avoid seeing the girl which makes him not hang out as much with his bestfriend. and whenever i bring the subject up he gets mad. What should i do?

[Lisa Angelettie]

While I believe that people make mistakes and that flirting is relatively harmless -- I personally think you need to ask yourself why you want to remain with someone who has an obviously strong attraction towards another girl - one that if "dreams could come true" - he would be with. I'm sure he was sorry you found out. Worried that his best friend may find out. He may even be truly sorry because he has no intentions of ever doing anything with this girl. But the fact that he is a bit preoccupied with her. Means something. And it isn't good.

Should u dump him? Well only you can decide that. But I will say that I have no time for wishy-washy. I'd rather be with someone who absolutely wants to be with me.

[mellissa]

Personally after knowing he said to the girl you dont like he'd rather be with her then you should deffinatly end it. I wouldnt be able to carry on in your situation always thinking whats is he doing when im not with him or anything like that.
you deserve someone alot better where your the girl and they're saying i'd rather be with you.
thats just my opinion i dont know what he's really like just going by what you have wrote.
Good Luck.
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