“But how can I tell if hes interested in the first place?”
Read back what you’ve just wrote, and ask that question again….
Alright let met help:
You’ve written:
1. On a few occassions over the years Jason and I have kissed
2. I really started...
I believe he’s being selfishly unaware of what things are arising through your life, and his. It’s a part of being selfishly thinking of if he doesn’t get what he wants, then nothing can work. He’s not looking at your feelings, and what’s going in...
Well to start off… I can relate to some degree on finding that right person, and feeling like you’ve found them. “it seems like any woman that I like isn’t emotionally available”
Here’s what I think:
For what you’ve said in your story about the ...
Age: 24 Birthday: December 5, 1984 Location: Santa Cruz, CA Area I'm a fun, and interesting person. I love people that have a warm heart, and a caring soul. I'm very positive in some ways, but try to keep it cool, and collective in the negative aspects of life.
Life to me seems important enough to find answers to questions that I’m always trying to over analyze. That’s why when I first stepped into this site. I felt that desperation, that feeling of loneliness. But then at the same time still having my heart beating for someone in my life to come forward.
So when I was searching for answers to my desperation wants, rather than needs, is when I found this site. I was searching for “woman advice”, and came across this site. But when reading, and replying to some of the problems that have accorded, I started to realize more, and more that love within yourself is more important than anyone. So when I say that. It’s more of the feelings for yourself, and checking into how you’re feeling, because that’s the most important thing. It’s who you are, and how your heart is. People can change, people can become something they weren’t when you met them, but ultimately love does change, and it’s up to you, and you alone to have the faith enough to check in within yourself in order to find if the love is still there or not.
So, when I try to give an example of who I am, and about me, it’s not what I am, but who I am. Who we are is more important than anyone else. If that man/woman in your life isn’t treating you with the respect you need, then it’s not fulfilling anything than gaps along the way to a beak down of the relationship. We all need that love in our hearts, so when things are tough, look inside you, and find out what you need.