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About Me:: Well, from the begining i really liked this guy and when we got together and he finally said he loved me i was over joyed. the thing is i ment everyword what i didnt know is that he didnt.
he asked me to marry him on a weekend away i estatacly accepted. but he started to go distant and i ended up staring at other woman on his phone when i looked at the time he hid it from me i later found out on the day he arranged then let me down on he met 2 woman clubbing and went for a meal with one of them and told the other one he loved her even though he knew not even a full day. he said he did it because he was stupid and i was pushing him away but that was for personal reasons we both knew about. he said he regreats it but then after fogiving him he moved in and met another in the bus station on the way home from work. this all got too much for me and i needed to think. i met up with a mate who i can talk to but happend to be an ex. he went ballistic and then i found my self drunk in a club kissing somebody but stopped because i knew i loved my boyfriend and wanted to be with him. he told me he has been putting deposits down on a ring and he lied about that but the fact is i have to force the truth out every time. he says he changes but i know he doesnt and find out he hasnt each time.
all we both do is argue about the things we've done to each other i cant take the arguments anymore and he's told me the same too. we've both ended the relationship plenty of times but pratcally ran back to each other as we feel were ment to be together. we love each other dearly and plan to buy a house together but i dont think our relationship is strong enough just yet do you? and i just dont know how to get over all these things they're always coming back and i can see him getting frustrated with my curiosity about everything but i cant seem to stop my self wondering 'what if' 'but' PLEASE HELP ME.
Mellissa
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At 8:52am on January 20, 2009, veronica said…: Hello,
My name is veronica I saw your profile and get interested,If True Love, kindly reply me through my personal email address: v.rich83@yahoo.com
I Cherish You,
Veronica.

At 3:04pm on September 30, 2008, aimee said…: im glad youve made a descicion. relationships take work, always. even the man needs to make more effort. i hope it works out for you this time and just remember if it doesnt its not your fault, you tried.

At 11:08am on September 30, 2008, Scovie said…: Hi Good morning Mellissa. How r u this morning. I hope better than yesterday, cause I sure do. It something about when you gain a little edge or power over your situtation that makes u feel good. Yes that is the new man in my life and thank U. Also I wanted to say "If" is such a little word that will alway keep you wondering. Talk 2 u soon ok.

At 3:54pm on September 29, 2008, aimee said…: deep down mellissa what do you think and feel you need to do?

At 11:41am on September 29, 2008, Scovie said…: Wow Your about me sound like me. Men r from Mar and Womens are from Venus. With those problems still there I doubt that U R ready.

At 11:38am on September 29, 2008, Scovie said…: Thank U Mellissa. No that is my first grandson Jayden. I am so pround and happy to have him in my life. Little one have no problem and make use feel like we have no problems. I need to update this pic due to he now 7month and way bigger. Thank U once again.
Scovie